In this article http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/40318901/ns/travel-news/ it talks about how the TSA employees are getting verbally abused over the pat downs.
I think this kind of sucks. The people doing the pat downs have no more of an option than you do. They are doing their job and following the orders they are given. I am sure they would rather not touch some nasty dudes ball sack either. But they have a job and are given directions on how to do it. I am sure everyone has done something at their job they do not think is right but know if they want to pay the bills at the end of the month they have to just do it.
So give them a break. If you want to yell at someone contact the head of the TSA.